For the last few years, I've been a little more open about the mentoring I do with small businesses and young professionals. I've also been very selective with who I work with because it's been entirely free, I feel the service should go to those most in need, and I also have to be protective of my time, as well.
After being asked for such a long time to offer consulting services, I finally found a way to fit them into my schedule that I feel is sustainable. These are not free. They are paid for consultations. I look forward to seeing if I can assist you. If you can't afford this rate, contact me for sliding scale.
Happy Lunar New Year! So happy to come into the new year with greater clarity and so much love.
January 1st is always when I set my yearly intentions but Lunar New Year is when I find out if I am going to hold true. Well, I am. 2023 has already started with a bang and LNY is a reminder to hold true to my goals.
Here's to the year of the rabbit!
Comment some of your goals and intentions for the new year below.
My house is full of local art. It's the main thing I collect while traveling. What is your go-to travel souvenir?
Read more here: https://geekgirltravel.com/2022/07/27/why-i-buy-local-art-everywhere-i-travel/
Amuseparks, theme parks. These are my happy places. And really, they always have been. My love of photography and dressing in costumes are so firmly rooted in my love of these parks.
I put together a little beginner's guide to amusement park travel since I know it can be overwhelming.
Images from: Disneyland, California Adventure, Six Flags, EPCOT, Hollywood Studios, Animal Kingdom, Universal Studios.
TW: Suicide, Depression, Sexual Assault
I hope you'll sit down with me a bit because this year is so personal for me. I turn 40 this year. And I'm more excited about this birthday than any birthday before it. You might be wondering why.
Honestly, as a kid and young adult, I never thought I'd make it to 40. I figured I'd be dead before I hit this milestone.
I grew up in a fairly dysfunctional situation. I have a teen mom and am also the product of rape. My mom and her mom, my Nanny, did not get along, which led to me often being a pawn piece in their game of chess and me working hard to be the adult that not only diffused their conflicts (which were, at times, physically violent), but also helped them heal from their abuses.
The cycle of abuse was strong in my family. My Nanny was abused. My mom. Me. I was first sexually abused at the age of 4 or 5. I remember when my mom found me being abused and blamed me for what was happening with a significantly older boy. She shamed me. My Nanny didn't believe me. I was so confused and so upset with myself. It started me down a very long road to recovery because from that point on, my disordered relationship with sex and shame and my self worth would become my Everest.
My mother attempted suicide many times during my life. Her desire to die was so palpable, but so was her guilt over it. As a young person walking into the hospital to visit my mom, who slit her wrists, it didn't even dawn on me that this was not a normal experience. For me, it felt normal. It felt ordinary. Living with a resting heart rate right below panic attack was just my baseline.
By the time my teen years arrived, my desire to stay on this Earth was slim. I didn't understand why I should want to, I had no concept of my own self worth, and I didn't have any people in my life who could model healthy relationships with themselves, with their loved ones. All around me, I saw addicts, people who were deeply depressed, people in abusive and/or dysfunctional marriages. Or worse, people pretending to be happy people. But my empathy was so high so I could always feel through that mask.
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As some of you know, I'm Indonesian and very proud to be an Asian-American. With my Austronesian roots, I've felt such a pull to visit places that are significant to those roots. Being American, Hawaii was high on that list. But it was so important that I visited Hawaii in a way that was respectful to the people, to the islands, to my ancestors.
I talked to friends of mine who are Hawaiian and still live on the islands and asked if there were some big DON'T tips they'd recommend for non-natives and put together a blog. Most importantly, though, just don't be a dick.
Also, check out the last image for my favorite photo I've ever taken while in Kauai.
One of the most common questions I get asked is how I keep my hair vibrant while traveling. There are a number of tips I can share with you, but one of the biggest is having a pigmented conditioner you believe in.
Photos taken in Iceland right before a blizzard started.
Packing for my first safari was daunting. So many blogs and lists telling me everything I needed to pack. And really, a lot of it wasn't exactly true.
Here are 10 items that were must pack for my first safari:
Ready to travel? Explore these different categories to read more about my favorite places, tips and tricks as I experience the world in my own style.
Travel can feel overwheling due to all of the available options in front of you. Before you know it, you’re frozen in indecision. Believe me, I have been there. That being said, don’t let the abundance of options end up meaning you choose to abstain from your adventures. Look over the links to the left and think about what kind of traveler you are and what kind of traveler you want to be… and then dive into your next wanderlust opportunity.
Travel can feel overwheling due to all of the available options in front of you. Before you know it, you’re frozen in indecision. Believe me, I have been there. That being said, don’t let the abundance of options end up meaning you choose to abstain from your adventures. Look over the links below and think about what kind of traveler you are and what kind of traveler you want to be… and then dive into your next wanderlust opportunity.
As you’ve probably guessed, I love to travel. I’m sure it comes as no surprise that my whole family loves to travel. Our family put together Our Family Bucket List of all the travel-related things we want to accomplish together, and this post discusses one of those goals in detail: visiting all seven continents.
As you’ve probably guessed, I love to travel. I’m sure it comes as no surprise that my whole family loves to travel. Our family put together Our Family Bucket List of all the travel-related things we want to accomplish together, and this post discusses one of those goals in detail: visiting all fifty states of…
Located in the city of Bend, Oregon (about 160 miles from Portland), be prepared to be transported back to your 90s kid youth when you see this perfectly preserved Last Blockbuster on Earth. Yes, you read that right. There is still a Blockbuster operating in Oregon and you can totally visit it.
Are you ready to travel but a bit overwhelmed at the prospect of fandom-based tourism? Whether you are just checking out a restaurant you saw in a reality show or you’re traveling to a new country with a hit list of filming locations to visit while in full costume, pop-culture travel has something for everyone. Here…
You’ve watched different movies and television shows, but swear you recognize their filming location and really want to visit it in person because you are such a huge fan. If you love the idea of traveling to locations featured in popular literature, film, and television, you likely have pop-culture travel on the brain.
Are you ready to gather up your favorite people and head out on a dream vacation? Whether you are interested in a family cruise or a trip to Disneyland, family travel has something for everyone. Here are five ideas to help jumpstart your road trip travel planning!
You’ve heard the stories of folks grabbing the whole family and going on an adventure. If you’re thinking about your own next trip and want to bring the kids and maybe grandma and uncle, too, you likely have family travel on the brain.
Are you ready to hit the road and cruise control your way to new adventures? Whether you are interested in a weekend trip to the town over or you want to road trip across Europe, road trip travel has something for everyone. Here are six ideas to help jumpstart your road trip travel planning!
Are you ready to travel but worried that you’re going to leave a carbon footprint stain along the way? Whether you are just dipping your toes into a more sustainable way of travel or you already have your eco-friendly toiletries ready and are biking your way to your destination, eco-friendly travel is for everyone. Here are seven…
You’ve heard the stories of people hitting the road and exploring so many amazing destinations all during one trip. If you’re thinking about your own next trip and prioritize flexibility, spontaneity, as well as following your own schedule, you likely have road trip travel on the brain.
Are you ready to hop on a roller coaster and then grab a churro? Whether you are planning a country hopping exploration of Disney parks or booking a weekend of nothing but thrill rides at a coaster park, amusement park travel has something for everyone. Here are ten ideas to help jumpstart your amusement park…